Dear Suz, I love that my partner and I still have sex in our 70s, but foreplay is an exhausting workout. As soon as he orgasms, he’s asleep in 10 seconds, but I’m still aroused and finish myself off. Should I tell him? I don’t want to hurt his feelings, or god forbid, have him keep trying to make me cum.
Dear Sex Lover, Perhaps, at the right moment and with humor, you could tell him just what you told me: you love the passionate workout with him; you’re thrilled you could make him cum; you’re not a spring chicken so it takes you forever to get aroused and to cum; you’re too exhausted after he cums to continue physical partner sex, but if he doesn’t mind, you’d like to finish off by yourself. He’ll probably be happy with this win-win. You both have an orgasm AND sleep soundly! -SQ
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