You've decided to try on-line dating. You've made yourself crazy by spending too much time comparing one app to another. Or you've already chosen a company and made yourself crazy, again, solving the ins-and-outs of how to navigate the site. Relax, it's not a race. Searching for the right Frog Prince or Princess can be a major pain, so imagine you're on Mr. Toad's Wild Ride and buckle up. Below are ratings based on my personal experiences with 5 of the zillion dating sites available. Best to make your own conclusions based on what you've learned by personal experience, what you've read, and/or other's opinions. Keep notes.
I urge you to read all the reviews you can find. Free sites have limited features but are good places to browse before you commit to pony up a credit card. Scams are still huge problems. All companies vet their subscribers, with most platforms using some sort of magical compatibility algorithm. Other sites specialize in specific communities like age, religion, profession, fetishes...
Available on Amazon, Cyber Frogs And Princes: A Sex Manual Of On-Line Dating Over 50 details my adventures with dozens of guys, and notes which dating site I met them.
On a scale of 5 stars being the best:
Match *****
SilverSingles *****
EliteSingles ***
Ourtime **
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Match.com ***** is the granddaddy of all dating services with almost 30 years experience and 30 million daily users, mostly from the U.S. 👍Pros: Reasonably priced membership with extra costs for features like local events; lots of space to write your "summary;" additional 6 months subscription if no serious relationship develops. 👎 Cons: Ads everywhere; profiles can have minimal info; average age is 36.
SilverSingles ***** (and Match.com*****) are equally my top picks that yielded the most, and closest, matches to my ideal mate. 👍Pros: A detailed personality quiz; you receive an average of 5 matches daily; advertises as exclusive for ages 50+; a live body answers the helpline; ample space to write your thoughts. 👎 Cons: Must rely solely on their daily matches; too many GU (geographically undesirable).
EliteSingles *** brands itself for professionals who want long-term commitments. I found this to be true enough. 👍 Pros: Short but stimulating open-ended questionnaire rather than canned dumb topics like other companies; easy site navigation; good customer service within 24 hrs. 👎 Cons: Cannot select your distance preference less than 50 miles; view compatibility rating only on desktop; a bit pricey. 👌Plus/Minus: Site gives you 5-7 above average matches daily instead of random picks of thousands.
Ourtime ** touts they specialize for 50+ y. o. but there are lots of youngsters. Unique advantage of sending you local possibilities before those living further away. 👍 Pros: Can view company's average of 8 daily recommendations; can search on your own with parameters like age, locations, ethnicity; shows who "likes" or viewed your profile. 👎 Cons: Nickel and dime you with "boosts" that land you at the top of someone's queue, or to send virtual gifts, "flirts" and "likes" messages; can't determine distances between users; ads up the ying-yang. 👌 Plus/Minus: 14 day trial to browse and send likes (but you can't get responses); can receive messages (that are unreadable until you subscribe).
SENIORMATCH 0000000000000000000000 Not a single, potentially serious match within a 50 mile radius was offered by this company for the entire 3 months of my subscription.
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