Dear Suze, I’ve dated a man for 3 years that began because we both wanted a Plus 1 for opera, theatre, and professional events. We’ve grown very fond of “living apart together” (a few days at my home, a few days at his, a few separate) and blending our families. He lights up my life, but I don’t think he feels the same. I’m special to him and he dates no one else, but outside of sex, I’m treated like his sister or someone who he’s been married to for 40 years. I can’t define my frustration but it digs at me.
Dear Frustrated, Where’s the passion? He sounds comfortable, but you want more. To spark your relationship, you need to define it, and discuss plans to change. If he doesn’t recognize that there is a problem before you point it out, be wary if he can really evolve. So, the issue is -can you settle for less or should you renew your dating subscription. -SQ
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