Holiday Parties

Dear Suze Q. My big company holiday party is a buffet and dance affair. Spouses and Plus Ones are encouraged. I want to bring my girlfriend as we’re both newly divorced and looking for Mr. Right, and I figure this is a good place to try our rusty flirting skills. Any foreseeable problems?

Dear Looking Ahead, Company parties always lead to company rumors. Best to tell your co-workers the version of your story you want them to spread. You’re bringing another single woman as your date because… You divorced your husband because… You’re ready to date and your interests/activities are… You’re not interested in someone who… Treat this opportunity to let out the fun woman inside you. Don’t be surprised if your alcohol-fueled friends need to be reminded in January of your message. -SQ