Sunday, November 24, 2024

Sex, but Not love

Dear Suze Q. After 6 months, I’m falling hard. She’s just what I want and the sex is great. Problem is we don’t really make love. I want to talk about life during long cuddle sessions, and wake up with her in the morning. She treats us like we’re just fuck-buddies and I can’t pin her down for more. 

Dear Falling, Time to ask her straight-out what she sees as your future, 6 months and a year from now. If she won’t answer or discuss the matter openly and honestly, assume what you’ve got now is it. Then you must decide if the casual romance is enough to hang-in and see how you feel as time passes. Top priority: your emotional happiness -with her or someone else. Consider dating others at the same time so all your eggs (or sperm in this case) aren’t in one basket. -SQ

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