Dear S.Q. My gal and I are going slow. We've both had marriages with grown children and don't want to repeat mistakes of the past. Our extended families are pushing the shit out of us to rush into living together or marriage or whatever. The holidays are coming up and this is usually where the family members pick us apart, like isolating the weak animal from the herd, then gang up on one of us.
Dear Ganged Up, Time for secret signals! Keep an eye out for your mate whenever the predators are circling. Have fun and arrange signals -tug of the ear like Carol Burnett or a necklace/belt means save me, tap on side of leg means let's leave, etc. Also, talk and agree on standard answers to the families' repeated and pesky questions. -SQ
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