Dear Suze Q. I’ve dated Jim off and on for 3 years. We talk about getting married but we can’t even get excited enough to live together. We’ve thought about an open marriage so we can still see other people. We’re in our late 50s, have kids and grandkids and rich social lives. What now?
Dear 50, Why do anything now? It sounds like it’s working until one of you definitely wants something else. Why marry? - no biological clock is ticking to have kids; you’re not even committed to an exclusive relationship. Why open marriage? -since 90% ultimately fail; the concept is to spice up a marriage (that you don’t have). Is Jim just a place holder until somebody better sweeps you off your feet? Keep dating; you’re nowhere near ready to marry again. Your heart’s not into it. -SQ
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