Dear S.Q., My dance card is full dating in my 60s! Dating apps pairs me with guys with similar interests, including sex. Sometimes, my vagina is sore, lubricants don't solve the dryness problem, and some sex toys chafe. I don’t want to play less, so what sex toys are best?
Dear Playful, Because of thinning and dry vaginal skin, foreplay, even with toys, can irritate and microtear those areas. The +: suction and vibration from sex toys trigger the body’s natural lubrication response that starts the arousal stage of sex. Use water-based lube during penetration for smooth sex.
Stock your toy chest with strong motors, soft material (silicone, metal, glass), smooth surfaces. Don’t use cheap toys unless you’re a beginner dabbling to decide what you like. Toys have specific jobs. Internal vibrators warm up and expand the vaginal canal; external toys stimulate various parts of the vulva. If penetration and vibration are too intense, don’t overlook the magic of air suction vibrators that simulates oral sex w/o direct touch. Lelo and Womanizer are toy leaders, pricey but worthwhile. Another plus: the more sex, the healthier your vagina. Hugh Hefner recommended his Bunnies have sex daily, solo or partnered! -SQ
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