Breadcrumbing?

Dear Suze, I’m still a live wire in my 60s and enjoy dating now that I’m divorced. Several men say I energize them. One that I have my eye on is quite the ladies' man, but I can’t seem to pin him down for an honest or deep, intimate conversation. He gushes when we’re together, then forgets about me until the next date, maybe a week later. I’m too old for dating Joe Cool. I want Mr. Right.

Dear Ms. Right. You’re right that games are only fun if both adults want them. His “breadcrumbing” you with tidbits of compliments is annoying and immature. Estimate 100 hours to really know if someone is worth pursuing. But, early on, you can decide if there’s enough honesty, full disclosure, and intimacy to build a lasting relationship. -SQ