Sunday, October 26, 2025

Opposites Attract

Dear Suze, My wife is a black/white thinker; I’m a philosopher. I love to ponder/debate. She wants answers. All kids have moved out. Can we survive? 

Dear Grey, Very different people that are attracted to each other often have intense relationships that end dramatically. Some opposites: (1) were never meant to be (oil and water), (2) some were meant to be for awhile, and (3) some, make it work forever. Are you #2 or #3? In your courting days, your differences were a joyous source of happiness. Are they still, now the nest is empty and it’s just you two? Or tedious, with no love left to glue together the differences? Take your time to assess your love and re-evaluate your lives. -SQ

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