Dear Suze Q. I met the love of my life on Match three years ago. We’ll be together until the end although we’ve decided there’s no reason to marry at our age, 70! He calls me baby cakes that I adore, but I wonder if it’s special for me or is a default name for all his prior loves. Part of me wants to know, but I don’t want to be disappointed.
Dear baby cakes, better not to ask than be disappointed. Better not to put him in a position of lying to not hurt your feelings. It’s a “gotcha” question like “do these pants make my butt look big?” -it’s a no-win situation, so let it go. -SQ
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