Dear Suze, Since my wife died years ago, I’ve dated many different women, but none seem right. I like parts of each, sexy, likes racquetball, cooking, similar movies, but no one has it all and I don’t want any more female “friends.” Should I give up looking.
Dear Looking, If you’re trying to replace your wife, yes, give up. She was the original and now she’s gone. The big question is -are you happy and fairly complete by yourself? You need to be your best self to offer a woman something. Don’t assume she’s the unrealistic ideal stuck in your fantasy. See her for who she is, then decide if she makes you better than without her. But if you are you looking for someone to make you whole, try therapy. -SQ
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