Saturday, February 8, 2025

Just One Kiss Doesn’t Count, Right?

Dear SQ, I kissed my wife at the stroke of New Year’s, and her best friend a little while later. That kiss lingered a bit and I keep recalling it. We’re seeing her again and I feel guilty but don’t know why. I don’t like being confused. I love my wife.

Dear Confused, 1) Infidelity/cheating on your spouse involves sexual tension. You kissed her bf and there was sexual tension, so ✔️.  2) It also includes keeping the relationship secret. If your next encounter has sexual tension and you don’t put an end to it, then add another ✔️ because now you are guilty. I'm sure you're not confused that micro-cheating leads to affairs and you've had plenty of time since NY to kill all thoughts to do so. Sooo, is your confusion how to have an affair and get away with it? Time to be honest. -SQ

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