Dear Suz, My wife died a few months ago after 5 years of daily dialysis. Her close friend is a widow who helped us through it. We are in love and I think my wife would approve of me committing to her. My adult kids are all for it, but hers won't tolerate that we're happy. I told her we need to move away and start life anew. She'll either follow or not.
Dear Either Or, Take a breath, take a break or vacation. Don't make her choose between you or her family. You need to make it works so she has both. In a year, if you've still not included as part of her family, then move -with or without her. Just because you've processed your grief (have you?) doesn't mean her family has processed theirs. -SQ
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