Worried About Drunken New Year’s Eve

Dear Suze, My bf got smashed and slobbering sad at his parent’s Christmas dinner, much like Thanksgiving with my family where he drunkly kissed my sister goodbye too long. The next day he said he didn’t remember the details but apologized. I’m terrified of the upcoming New Year’s Eve party.

Dear Terrified, -you should be. Alcoholism is a red flag relationship-deadly. Have you made it clear that 3rd strike and game’s over? If NY Eve is a repeat performance, Cinderella, you need to autodial Uber at 12:01 a.m., and your #1 resolution is find a new, responsible guy who handles his liquor. -SQ