Dear Suze, I met a great widower on-line who lives far but comes my way often to see family and friends. We’ve talked and flirted on the phone every day for a month and have a date next week. I recently asked him when his wife passed, and he admitted she hasn’t. She has advanced dementia and doesn’t recognize him. He was looking for the right time to tell me without scaring me off. Conflicted
Dear Conflicted. Tough call because you sympathize with his dilemma. We all have baggage and hopefully he’ll share the rest of his secrets. Since this huge curve ball is now in your court, if you want to trust, you must verify. What if it’s a crock and he’s very married and cheats on the side? Make him answer all your questions or swipe left. -SQ
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