Thursday, November 21, 2024

Don't Go To Bed Angry

Dear Suze Q. My partner and I usually resolve our issues well. Last night we hit a snag and he slept on the couch. I wanted to talk it out and not sleep alone but he said he couldn't. I'm hurt.

Dear Hurt, Arguing is normal, and how you solve your problems determines how solid the relationship will be. This new snag just means you need rules to cover arguing at night, like don't go to bed angry, resolve as much as you can before bedtime (even if it means you agree to disagree, and/or schedule a time to continued), and don't sleep apart. -SQ

 


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