Dear Suze Q. My favorite guy is pissed that I am casually seeing other men even though we never said we'd be exclusive. He gives me the silent treatment or one-word answers for days, which has always been a major problem. I've said I'm sorry until I'm blue in the face and begged him to see someone to help us but he say 'no', that I blew it and he's not sure he'll ever love me again. It's been a month with no change. --I'm So Sorry but Not Sure Why
Dear So Sorry. What are you staying for? Passive-aggressive behavior, refusing to communicate when angry, is destructive behavior in a relationship and incredibly hard to change if the person is unwilling. It's about power and shuts down all avenues to communicate, negotiate, compromise, or find solutions. He told you where he stands. If you believe him, then leave. You'd be better loved by a pet. If things improve dramatically, reconsider the relationship only if he agrees to follow rules of Fair Fighting. (search the internet for details). -SQ
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