Tired of Playing Ball

Dear Suze Q,  I am a personable, 60ish women who takes exceptional care of my body.  I am a top biller in my profession and have done most everything a person could ever want.  I only date men who take their looks and profession seriously but the marriage commitment has always been just out of reach.  I am beginning to think no man will meet my standards.  My girlfriend, who has been married her whole life, says my expectations are too high.  She doesn't know what dating is like. I need real advice. Which dating site is suitable for a sophisticated and educated woman like myself who is ready to commit?  I don't need any more "three strikes" or three dates and you're out. --Tired of playing ball

Dear Tired,  If you're looking for a major league home run, you need to play in the right elite ball club.  Narrow your search to age-specific dating sites that use complex scientific algorithms and have a large dating pool.  I recommend Elite Singles (2 million population) with 80% of their members holding Bachelor's degrees or higher, and urge you to enjoy several of your favorite drinks while thoughtfully completing their lengthy questionnaire.  Or Match.com with nearly 40M users.  Luxy and Millionaire Match cater to the rich and educated but their stats and successes are hard to validate.  Equally iffy, but might be worth your while is It's Just Lunch that uses a live matchmaker.  It's pricey, results vary from city to city, and a 2016 class action lawsuit settled because members' expectations weren't met.  Better yet, cover all your bases and subscribe to a couple services to speed up the selection process.    --SQ