Dear Suze Q, I found my husband’s texts with his work associate with nude pictures and filthy talk about including me. He had to know I’d see this when he asked me to set up his new phone, so I ask him. He said he was afraid to talk to me of his fantasy, but he felt our marriage was stale. Any problem with a threesome to improve our marriage?
Dear Stale, He didn’t talk to you for fear of your reaction to a 3-way sexual encounter, but he HANDED you the texts that he’d imagined the whole thing with his workmate? He modeled in porn pics and texts with Workplace Wanda but not with you, his wife? Ménage-a-trois wouldn’t fix a marriage, and it won’t ignite your sex life if the object of his lust is her and you’re just a convenient obstacle to get there. What happens after the rendezvous? Sex fun → go for it. Save the marriage → see a counselor ‘cause sex may be such a minor problem compared to everything else that’s wrong. -SQ
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