Dear Suze Q, I have such chemistry with the guy I’m dating that I feel electricity when he touches me. And the sex, oh my god! How do I keep this going?
Dear Electric, A normal course of satisfied love begins with the honeymoon stage (where you are now), then stagnates into complacency, periodically gets rocky, then contentment. If you want to skip the last three stages, bail out when complacency sets in, and find another hot affair. If you want to prolong the honeymoon stage with the same person, you must both work at it. Everyday, every way. Variety is the spice of life, and mundane routines are killers. Foundation: honest communication, and PLAY time. Role-play, explore/expand boundaries both sexually and mentally. Example: Explore the “cheater’s high” -the rush of getting away with something, coupled with dabbling with the forbidden. -SQ
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