Dear All, There was quite a response from last week’s Fear of Commitment/Intimacy blog, a very real scare that grips people from all walks of life. No one is exempt from at least a moment of doubt because at the core it’s about trusting another with your entire soul. Only one issue will answer if the fear can be overcome or if you need to forget this relationship: What is this person’s history? Dump them is THEY have a “pattern” of ending relationships for BS or dubious reasons. Once is not a pattern but three times is. If you want a relationship but the other person is wishy-washy, determine their honest history (dig deep, they might lie). If you nag or guilt them into a relationship, expect it to fail. You cannot change another, only they can change if they truly want to, but it maybe only temporary. -SQ
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