Dear Suze Q. My companion bought some silk ropes and said it's time we spice up our sex lives. I'm gung-ho and don't want to f--- this up. Not sure where to begin. Hints?
Dear Gung-Ho. Hojojutsu, or "restraining rope technique" is the traditional Japanese martial art of restraining a person, popular before handcuffs were invented. Shibari is an Eastern concept of emotional connection between two people, an expression of love and communication using the ropes. It is the process of eroticism and sexuality. It is more than bondage. Best to explore your research with your partner, rather than alone. Part of the allure is experimenting and f---ing up together. -SQ
I would be afraid that if my partner put me in handcuffs or even tied me in silk knots, that once I was completely helpless, they might go out on the town without me😆😂😀
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