Dear SQ, For years, my sex life has been nil at worst to vanilla at best because of my partner's medical issues. I don't want to be unfaithful so I'm thinking of going to a fetish club to see the options. It wouldn't be cheating if I had skin contact but not genital, or genital exposure but not contact, right?
Dear Wrong, You're splitting (pubic) hairs to make a bogus argument. Your real question is, "can I cheat on my partner and somehow dress it up as 'not really.'" Infidelity is emotional intimacy unknown to your partner, and of which s(he) would not approve. You need an honest discussion about your future. If your partner's lack of sex is a deal-breaker, are there other options, or is it time to dissolve your relationship with dignity and shared grief? -SQ
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