Dear Suze, I’m a widower in my 60s dating again and I think I’m adaptable -I like adventure. I’ve met lots of interesting men, but they all seem to have some fatal flaw I can’t get past. Help!
Dearie, You’re stuck. Maybe it’s not them that’s killing the romance, but you. Re-examine what you want, and what you won’t tolerate. That should leave a HUGE middle ground where an acceptable mate thrives. Are you comparing these gents to someone they can never be -your ex, father, brother? Let go of your impossible ideal, and give your date a chance to share his uniqueness. -SQ
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