Sex On A First Date

Dear Suz, My golden-age girlfriends say sleeping with a guy on the first date is déclassé. After my divorce, and back in the game in my late 50s, I see no reason to be coy about what I want. Yes? No?

Dear Uncoy. Déclassé means vulgar. They thought sex was beneath you when actually you want him beneath you, and why not? Why wait? Be safe though. Same rules apply as always (except worrying about pregnancy). Make sure he gives you a good time, but not a STD. Be clear what you want and don’t. Have an exit plan if it goes to hell. -SQ