Dear Suze Q. I’m thrilled to be dating again in my 50s with a guy who is a health nut. I’m the girl next door type, cute, little make-up, things in moderation. He’s flashy and loves the spotlight. I don’t like that he primps. He’s always adjusting his clothes to make them look tighter, and glances at every mirrored surface he sees. What’s the deal?
Dear Cutie, Primping and preening are fussing over one’s looks, a sign of self-absorption. If he preens you like a lover should, (brushes your hair aside, rubs your skin) it’s a love sign. If he only preens himself, who do you think he loves the most? Is he an egotist -one who thrives on “me,” exaggerating his self-importance? Is your relationship healthy with balanced power? Run if he gets angry after criticism, and only sees you as his cheerleader. -SQ
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