Dear Suze Q. I married a silver-tongued dandy 30 years ago, knowing he loved life and women, and they loved him back. He is a genius in his field and just being in his orbit elevated me. The nest is now empty and he loves me like always, but I find it harder to lie to myself that his world revolves around me, if it ever did. Now at 55, should I stay or go?
Dear Wiser, He hasn’t changed but you have. Can you stay now that you understand his love for other women? Have you gotten as much as you need from the glow that surrounds him but only reflects back onto you? Are you ready to become a new you? Make a honest list of what you’ll lose and gain by staying or leaving. There’s no rush to action. Do deep self-analysis first. Take trips, have adventures without him. Follow where your heart leads. -SQ
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