Dear S.Q. I've long been widowed and finally feel I can love again. It took a toll getting here, therapy helped. I've returned to old hobbies left forgotten like garbage-can cooking (whatever is in the refrig), deep cleaning, and exercising that I do naked. I worry about sex. My wife was sick for years before she died, so no sex there. Now I'm 60 and know my body parts work with porn, but with a real live lady?
Dear Nudie Cutie, what a plus for your new companion! A man ready to love, happy, adventurous, and naked. Aging is a bitch, however, and age-related physiological changes that contribute to erectile dysfunction at your age can be over 50%. It's worse if you have performance anxiety, and stress/tension about the social and romantic encounter. So chill out when meeting your potentials. Try shyly mentioning you do things alone in the nude to gauge her reaction. If she runs in terror, you've saved yourself another costly date with the wrong person. Any other response is open for interpretation. Move with the groove. -SQ
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