Dear Suze Q. An old flame is back in my life. We hooked up after finding ourselves single at the same time. We pledged not to get serious, but I think she wants to. I don't. What do I owe her?
Dear Don’t. It’s not unusual for former lovers to reunite, because the familiar is comfortable. It’s also not unusual to break up again because the old reasons didn’t change. Right now, she’s a placeholder and serves a function. You may want to discuss the relationship’s status if it becomes more defined and you feel you’re dishonest and using her. In a non-exclusive relationship, full-disclosure is not required but courtesy is. -SQ
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