Dear Suze Q. I’ve been dating a guy for a year that I met on a dating app and he wants to move into my house. It’s cheaper than 2 places, and we’re together 4-5 nights a week anyway. He doesn’t want to get married yet although our kids are grown and we’re in our early 60s. He gets weird calls that he steps outside to take, and messages from friends, some are women. I don’t mind if he sees other people, if he’s honest about it, but he gets insulted if I even joke about his girl “friends.” I don't trust that he’s telling me everything. Help!
Dear Help! Trust but verify. After he’s moved in, it’s too late to find out if his female friends are really something more. Check him out like anyone you’d open your property to. A private eye is costly, but other on-line companies can do a partial search. ✔️ the reviews! instantcheckmate.com is one public database that searches an individual’s social media and dating accounts to see if he’s still actively dating others. If you live together, make sure you know the end goal, -just roommates forever, friends with benefits, married in the future, he can lie and cheat but you can’t… It’s easier to never let him live with you than to kick him out after he’s screwed you mentally. -SQ
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