There were many responses to the Valentine Day Challenge to share your good and not-so-good experiences. Some were hilarious and others were sweet. The not-so-good ones here may have a silver-lining and a different outcome if you repeat the action and change a few props. SQ
Dear Suze, I gave my Valentine a fantasy gift of a lap dance wearing my new lingerie and wig. He laughed! I laughed too but I wanted to cry. He said it was great but such a surprise from our usual love-making. I'm afraid to be creative again but I want a variety other than vanilla, vanilla, vanilla. Shamed Valentine in Vallejo
Dear Valentine in Vallejo, I'm glad you laughed to lighten up an awkward moment. Have a pillow-talk about shaking up your routines. Talk about past experiences, real or fantasized and agree to try again. Don't give up. The outcome is worth a few awkward moves. -SQ
Dear Suze Q. I don't know whether to be ecstatic or pissed with the Valentine's gift my boyfriend of 3 years gave me. Mind you, we have fabulous sex and we enjoy new adventures, but when he gave me a remote controlled vibrator, I was stunned. He grinned that it just added a teasing element into our relationship because it's hands-free and requires me to do nothing but enjoy the vibrations. He's not the controlling type but if I agree to use this, he will be totally holding the reins from a distance. We love partner-play when we're together, but I'm worried I'll be dominated by him rather than connected. Wireless and Worried.
Dear Wireless, Sounds like this new toy maybe exciting and enjoyable if the ground rules are clear. Probably not a good idea to have an unplanned orgasm while talking to your boss at work or having dinner with your parents. Or, who knows? Since it isn't returnable, you might as well create a script, including time and place to turn-on, and give the toy a whirl. Then decide to be pissed or not. -SQ
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