Hi All. Another reader has concerns about "elder sex." Horrible term, I know. Feels like I should wash my mouth out with soap. But sex is in the phrase too, so how bad can it be?
Dear Suze Q., I have been divorced for years and my 3 grown children want me to find love again by joining a dating service. I agree but I'm so embarrassed that my dowdy old body will scare away any real suitor. Underneath my make-up and slimming undergarments is a sad, sagging body of a woman past her prime. How do I act sexy if I don't feel sexy? --Sexless and 60
Dear S & S, The sexiness of a woman flows from her open heart and there is nothing more attractive than a smile that signals she is approachable. Add a touch of pastel lipstick, fluff your hair, pinch your nipples and walk to him while holding eye contact like he's the only man for you.
First impressions are important but the foundation of a loving relationship is more than skin deep. Remember that men suffer the same fears as you do about disappointing a potential mate. When you click with the right person, everything will fall into place. Your outer body is not the central magnetism in mature love. Let your soft curves, soft touch and soft skin reignite pleasurable muscle memory that has been dormant for too long. --SQ
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